December 2008 / Kislev-Tevet 5769

From The President

Dear CBS family,

It seems impossible that December is already upon us. Just yesterday we were celebrating Passover. Yes, time does fly as we get older.

There are many things happening in our congregation this month.  Consecration of our religious school students happens on December 5th; the AIPAC luncheon at noon, drop in and decorate cookies also at noon, and then our congregational meeting at 7 p.m. on December 7; member recognition of Scott Biewer on December 12; Latkes and Vodkas on December 13; our congregational Chanukah party on December 21, at 5 p.m.; USY International Convention December 21-25; Chanukah from December 21-28, and our dinner to feed First Responders on December 24-25.  Whew!

When I was growing up in Sacramento (Citrus Heights) my siblings and I always happened to be the only Jewish children in our classes, probably similar to what many Jewish children experience in Modesto.  My father used to invite all our friends over and tell them the story of Chanukah.  At the end of the "lesson" our friends would come away wishing they too were Jewish so they could get a "present a night" for 8 days.  Even though my father tried to explain that it was not a "Jewish Christmas" that seemed to be the lesson learned by our friends.

Later, as we got older, our teachers would ask us to present a story to the class about Chanukah.  I remember bringing dreidels and Chanukah gelt and teaching my classmates how to play dreidel, the Jewish gambling game.  Years later, as my siblings began their own families, they got more elaborate, making potato latkes and sharing them with their childrens' classes.

Chanukah is a great holiday to teach our friends, our children's friends, and ourselves not only about Chanukah, but also about the similarities and the universal messages of many religious groups at this time of year, the message of Peace, Hope and Giving.  It is the time of year, beginning with Thanksgiving, when we take stock of our lives and are thankful for what we have and most of us probably realize we have enough--or maybe too much--and it is a time to give of that abundance to those who have less.

I've always explained to my friends that Chanukah is not a major holiday, or at least not the major gift-giving holiday.  That should be reserved for Purim, in my humble belief.  Coming soon after the High Holidays we should learn from our past the reason we celebrate Chanukah.  A group of observant Jews, the Maccabees, were moved to remind our wayward brothers that they had forgotten the teachings of our fathers and were taking on the ways of the Greeks.  Yes, Jews killed Jews, which is sometimes actually allowed in the Torah, but what the Maccabees did was to lead our people back to observe our commandments.

Today, we can learn from the Maccabees and turn this holiday season back into one of giving.  We can give of our knowledge through educating ourselves and our friends.  We can give of ourselves in volunteering for those less fortunate.  We can give of our abundance to those who live in their cars or on the streets or under the outside roofs of churches and synagogues.  Let's make this holiday into one that will make our community a better place to live, the true meaning of Tikun Olam.

I hope many of you will help us make Christmas Eve and Christmas Day a day to remember for the First Responders of our community, as we open our doors on those dates to give these workers a warm, delicious holiday meal.  Please see the article elsewhere in the Bulletin on how you can help.

Wishing you all a warm, peaceful, and giving holiday season.

-- Joyce

Religious School News

It is that time of year again; holidays, parties, vacation, plays, shopping--you name it!  It is a busy time of year for all of us.  Even our teaching staff and synagogue staff is busy with preparations for this month; Latkes and Vodkas, Chanukah, night of 100 Menorahs, Consecration on December 5th, and we're trying to plan a holiday Tzadakah project.

At the same time, we're all being "hit up" for donations to a myriad of very good organizations that provide services to those less fortunate.  So, we promise not to hit you up for cash.

But, what we do want is your time and energy.  There are a few programs here at CBS and the religious school we could use your help with.  Namely, they are:  fund-raisers (a great film festival is being planned!), clean up, library assistance, and a host/hostess for our weekly bagels and schmooze.

We need your help, physically, not monetarily.  Over the next month, we'll be contacting you to participate in one of our committees that benefit the religious school.  We want to provide the best experience possible and to do so we really need your help.

So, rather than take too much of your time here, you can count on our follow-up to ask for your participation with one of our committees.

Happy Chanukah and Happy New Year!

-- Todd Aaronson



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Previous newsletters are here.

Oneg Shabbat Hosts


Oneg host schedule can be found here.

Dec.  5 -- Consecration|Mendlin & Filgas families|Family Service.
Dec. 12 -- Kurland, Grynbaum, & Snyder families.
Dec. 19 -- Driskill & Scribner families.
Dec. 26 -- Drabkin & Trauring families.

Thank you for participating.  Please remember to include fruit as an alternative dessert.

Driver Available

Do you need transportation on Mondays? Call Bari Mantel.

I would be both happy and delighted if you would call me to take you anywhere you need to go!

Thank You

Thank you to Elsa McCoy for her help with mailing the November Bulletin, and to Lyn Rabinovitz for her help with shredding and mailings.

We are always looking for volunteers to help with the Bulletin.  Please call the CBS office if you are available.


On Sunday, November 2, 2008, the Northern Region members of the United Synagogues of Conservative Judaism held a biennial meeting in San Francisco.

At that meeting 15 of the member congregations honored their volunteers for their efforts. Our congregation, Congregation Beth Shalom of Modesto, named Harriette and Morrie Kirschen as their nominees.

We were present at the luncheon event as well as the "Storah-telling" program that preceded it. To our pleasant surprise, some 12 members of the CBS congregation braved the inclement weather and were also present.

This, then, is to thank the CBS Board for the honor bestowed on us and to especially thank those who made the trip to San Francisco to be present at the event.

Thank you all! --Morrie and Harriette Kirschen


"Get Well" Information Needed

If you know of a congregant who is ill or in the hospital, please help us include them for calls, visits, and the speedy recovery list by letting the office staff know.

Please remember that hospitals are not permitted to share information with the public, including the synagogue.


Inkjet Cartridge Recycling Program

Thank you for your past support and we hope that more of you will think of recycling your used ink jet cartidges by placing them in the recycling bin in the foyer.


Scrip News

We carry O'Brien's, Starbucks ($20 denominations), & Richland Market. These are in stock and available for purchase.

Safeway and Macy's
If you shop at Safeway or Macy's, we ask that you consider registering your store cards with escrip. Every time you make a purchase, you generate a percentage of your purchase for CBS.

SaveMart
If you shop at SaveMart, please register for a SHARES card. Forms are available in the foyer or call the CBS office and we will mail one to you.
If you have any questions on any of these programs, please call the CBS office at 571-6060.